“What Did You Do In School Today?”:
Five Easy Ways To Find Out
“What did you do in school today?” is a question we all ask our children and what is the usual response… “Oh, nothing.”. As adults we see this as a reasonable enough question, but then adults can summarize. Preschoolers can’t. Adults can survey events and pick our what was important, but your preschooler has not figured that out yet. Adults can easily switch their thoughts away from what is in front of them. Not preschoolers. You can help your child learn these thinking skills and at the same time find out what happened at school. It is a joint process, though, with you doing most of the work at first. Here are five tips to help you learn about your child’s day.
1. Wait for a time that your child can think– a time that he/she is not hungry, tired or actively playing.
2. Focus on one small piece of information rather than expecting a summary of the day.
3. Don’t quiz or correct your child when they are explaining something they did or learned about during the day. Let him/her be the expert in that moment.
4. Ask questions that can’t have a one word answer.
5. Ask what happened first, then encourage your child to organize his or her